Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Love in India

'Love' is a very special feeling which fills a person's heart with the feel good factor and which could make a poet even out of a very dump person. In life there are very rare chances that one will meet the true love. But it is in complete discretion of a person whether to go forward with a relationship.

In India, 'Love-marriages not always worth the pain and hardships of social stigma, when the society in India values caste, creed, religion, money, family status, family values and traditions more than anything. It is true that Love is blind, yet to fall in love in India would be a very stressful thing for a man/woman or even fatal as some of the recent honor killing cases indicate.
http://www.hindu.com/mag/2010/05/23/stories/2010052350020100.htm

Monday, April 13, 2009

India: a heaven for Hindu, Muslim and all...

India is a great religious nation. It is here, where great ideas, thoughts and religions flourish. When it comes to religion, Hindu (as a religion) and Islam are the most prominent in India. Whatever the religion India is the most fertile ground for devotion. She gave birth to lots of great devotees, in both religions. The desire for brotherhood, love and understanding between these two great religions was there even from the ancient times. The great saint,visionary Swami Vivekananda had a vision of new India with a Vedanta-brain and a Muslim-body. Even though actions of some handful of people in early years and later by the British tried to saw the seeds of hatred between them that desire for brotherhood and togetherness is still here.

The love, respect and devotion for Islam in India started right from the time when it took birth. The great religion of Islam is believed to have come to India first through the trade routes via sea. We can still see the ancient Mosques in south India which was established by Islam followers who came to India, not so long after its birth in Persia. The most interesting fact is that, the rulers of the land in that times of India, the Raja's and Prabhu's (kings and Landlords), who were ardent devotees of Hindu religion did recognize the greatness of Islam and gave land and other gifts to the carriers of this precious cargo from across the sea (Islam) to establish it in India. Even more interestingly, some of the rulers even chose Islam as their religion. The remains of these dynasties can be found in south India even today and they were excellent rulers and great patriots. But later the entry of Islam through the northern side of India by Sultans from Persia was violent. They were in the process of extending there territories through wars in north India and with them Islam found its ground in large scales.

In later years, as Islam began to blossom and in its peak India produced finest of Islamic thinkers, artists, poets, devotees and rulers. During these times some great people like Kabir Das who recognized the greatness of both Hindu and Islam, tried to highlight the importance of brotherhood and understanding between them. Yet from time to time by the actions or inaction of handful of people of both religions, who were supposed to hold the highest virtues of their respective religions, betrayed their people and great values of their respective religions to cultivate hatred and misunderstanding between people and caused self-imposed separation from each other and even urged people to kill each other. To kill!, to hate each other!, and that is what these two great religions teaches not to do and that is what people did and yet they were regarded as the true practitioners of their religions and called themselves Hindus and Muslims.

After all, religions are just different roads which lead to a destination which is common for all. It is like children of a father taking different roads to reach home after a long day's hard work.

Today in India the scenarios had been changed. Now there are lots of Hindus and Muslims happily lives along side and discrimination and violence are cornered to only some pockets of India where social injustices like poverty, illiteracy and unemployment cohabit. (Non-existence of good basic infrastructure facilities like roads, transportation, schools, hospitals, etc. can also make the children of a country, quarrelsome.) And today hate is a tool in the hands of political parties (both ‘communal’ and so called ‘secular’ political parties) which they use now and then to increase (or decrease) their vote bank (support) and sustain their only means for livelihood they know.

Presently India has the largest population of Muslims living in an Islamic and non-Islamic country and has more happy Muslim people than most of the so called Islamic countries. Today, Islam is in full bloom in India as Hindu religion and irrespective of their religion every Hindu and Muslim possesses a collective identity of "Indian-ness" and works for the progress our great nation as an Indian. Now India is as much as a Muslim nation as Hindu. In this fertile land of ours any number diverse thoughts, ideas and religions can blossom, bear fruit and thrive. This is India, our mother, an Embodiment of Universal Love, she embraces all.

To further our cause we should:-

1.Learn, understand and respect other religions and their teachings.

2.Make more friends and acquaintance with people of different religions.

3.Invite people from other religions to your religious festivals and you should participate in theirs too.

4.Work for the well-being of all.

NB: I request you to send me your valuable comments and any corrections if needed. I welcome all your support in this regard. Thank you.
Dated 7/23/08 7:19 AM

Monday, November 24, 2008

Ahimsa: the weapon of mass change (into peace)


Ahimsa is not merely eating vegetarian food or stopping oneself from using products from animals like woolen, milk or animal fat. Ahimsa is consciously distancing oneself from all kinds of actions that may give harm to anybody or any living beings, physically or otherwise. We should also remember that, one should not over-do it in a way that may disrupt one’s normal life.
Ahimsa is the practice of Universal Love in every-day life and not merely a non-violent way of doing things. It teaches us to treat everybody alike in an affectionate way, even those who try to harm us. The Spiritual Guru (teacher), Amma (Mother), Sri Mata Amritanandamayi Devi says,' suppose we fall into a pit. Do we poke our own eyes because they didn't guide us properly? Just as we endure any defects in our own eye sight, we should be compassionate towards others, always putting up with their shortcomings'. It urges to show compassion towards fellow beings while dealing with day to day problems.
It is the most effective weapon that a present day, modern era nation can use against all the ills in this world. The solutions found through Ahimsa (non-violent means) not only solve the problem but also reaps compassion and love in this world. Actions rooted in compassion towards others will not only make our hearts more expansive but also fill others with compassion.

Ahimsa can be followed as a very noble and practical base for any genuine reaction of an advanced human race. It should have been the by-law of every society and every country by now, only if we consider the years gone by and the wealth of knowledge and experience the human race possess.

Our human race suffered endless pain and suffering from numerous wars we fought against each other for land, resources, money and for a whole lot of reasons. Every problem in this world has a solution. When we start to address every problem with a positive outlook and try to find out a solution in an atmosphere of mutual respect and brotherhood we can solve every problems of this world or at least get the strength to face it and the sweet fragrance of Universal Love
will fill in this world.

Violence reaps only Violence. How can somebody do good to somebody by hurting.

How can somebody serve a community or a country by demolishing the same?

Only Actions firmly based on Ahimsa and selfless love can lead us towards a bright future.

These days people prefer to expresses their opinions and dissents through violence. If anybody needs to be heard or seek attention of the society, media or government, resorts to violence as their medium. They try to disrupt, destruct and demolish public property to get attention. It is happening in a country where the noble act of Satayagraha, the non-violent but powerful way of fighting for truth and justice once flourished. The word Satayagraha itself had been discredited many times by the politicians of all the political parties (including those which claim to bear at least the name of the ‘national party’ before Indian independence, even not the legacy or principles). Remember this is the land of great souls like Sri Buddha, Sri Ramana Maharshi, Swami Vivekananda and Mahatma Gandhi.
Dated 11/27/08 6:55 AM